We head to the US in less than two weeks for our donor cycle so the topic has come up with DH whether we put one back in one or two fertilised eggs. This is obviously if we are lucky enough to have this choice! DH is determined that we couldn't handle twins so one is enough and if are not successful then we go back for a FET (again if we are lucky enough to have frosties). I want to maximise my chances of bringing a baby home! Being 45 and having lost seven babies in three years through miscarriage I just want a happy ending. The agency says they have a 80% successful rate with putting back two, with a 25% chance of twins. I am interested to hear people's thoughts on these stats (it seems more than 25% have twins) and if willing to share, how they arrived at their decision and what the result was. I keep debating the options and am still not sure.
Thanks for your help and advice!