My grandfather has recently become unable to care for himself. My mother too cannot afford to not work and look after him so he will be moving in with me after he gets released from hospital till a nursing home spot becomes vacant.
I will be hiring a nurse to visit on days I work but I will do the care on my home days. But my grandfather is an easy going man and totally not difficult to look after other than he soils his pants all the time. But no malice at all.
wifey of hubby who is always away. mother of two girls who are always amusing.