Well said @BlondeinBrisvegas, people seem to think they have the right to force opinions when it comes to childbirth and then child raising.
@babybloom I think you're very brave having another baby after what you've been through and how you choose to birth is up to you and you only. Sure, a vaginal birth might go well but it may just as easily not go well and I dont think that's a risk you should take with your existing problems.
My friend has such a traumatic vb that her child is going to be an only child.
As a side note I hope you can look into getting a referral and seeing a specialist once you've had your baby as surely they can do something to improve your current situation.