we are all hear if you need us (non-stalkery I swear!)
... I'm afraid to say anything as I understand that it could come across oddly to you... argh.
Stupid selfish stalkers..
Omg I just read all this and was like "holy heck!"
Sounds like you know who it is and get silence is an admission of guilt.
That's quite scary.
I'd be planting a few targeted posts about specific things and see if they get replicated. Then you'll know that something is definitely up!
A little freaked out...I've just been looking over my old threads to see if anything stands out, when I've looked through my threads i can see that there are all these posts I haven't started. There is another user on this site with a very similar name to mine that looks like their posts are linked to my account. I'm not sure if bubhub is confused by our similar names or whether I should be worried. Thoughts?
Why do you think it's linked to your account?
When I look through my old threads I also get threads started by someone called 'sharvs'. Is that what you mean?
Like if there is another user called shmoosey it's coming up as your threads? I think it's just related to the search function. Hth.
Yeah it's just the search function afaik. I can see why you'd be alarmed after your experience but it's nothing to worry about :-)
When I first saw the sharvs ones I was so confused!
Just a quick thought about weeding out this person - consider releasing new specific and different information in separate contexts/sites/social media. Wouldn't need to be accurate to your life but enough that may give you an indication in time which context is the leak and get you closer to narrowing down or confirming the person. Your suss person would need to not have access to all contexts. Can be time consuming. Start a mind map if you are keen.
As annoying as it is, it probably wouldn't constitute a criminal offence at this stage, but if it escalated it may. There are a lot of nutters out there. Hopefully this one fits the harmless/bored category. Good luck with it all!
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