+ Reply to Thread
Results 1 to 5 of 5
  1. #1
    Join Date
    Jan 2012
    Posts
    7,366
    Thanks
    2,566
    Thanked
    3,783
    Reviews
    7
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts

    Default Book - no bad kids: toddler discipline without shame

    Has anyone read the book called "no bad kids: toddler discipline without shame"? I feel like I need more of a consistent discipline strategy. When my 2yo is doing something she shouldn't, I count to 3 and mostly she stops doing it but if she doesn't, I don't know what the next step should be! So I was wondering if anyone thinks this book has good strategies? I also need something that I can easily explain to my parents as they look after her twice a week. Looking forward to your reviews :-)

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Sep 2010
    Location
    Gold Coast
    Posts
    1,357
    Thanks
    1,160
    Thanked
    630
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    Subscribed.......

    Anyone??

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Mar 2007
    Location
    Melbourne
    Posts
    8,157
    Thanks
    752
    Thanked
    765
    Reviews
    5
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    Subbing.
    I wish I knew what the next step was after 3, usually it's yell like a mad woman and threatening to throw all the Easter chocolate in the bin.
    Haha

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Jul 2011
    Location
    Western Australia
    Posts
    629
    Thanks
    137
    Thanked
    166
    Reviews
    3
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    Watching- I also need something that is effective

  5. #5
    FearlessLeader's Avatar
    FearlessLeader is offline Winner 2013 - Most Memorable Thread
    Join Date
    Oct 2009
    Posts
    10,724
    Thanks
    2,498
    Thanked
    9,116
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 postsEmerald Star - 10,000 posts
    I haven't actually read the book you're talking about so I'm not sure if this will help at all, but we loosely follow 1,2,3 magic but don't always do a 'time out'. I will usually tell the offending child- 'If I get to 3 this will happen' and give them a natural consequence for their behavior. Eg 'if I get to 3 before you're out of the bath you are going to lose a story' or 'if you don't stop fighting over the toy by the time I get to 3 it's going on top of the fridge' any physical violence is a 'straight 3' and they have to go and sit on my bed with me for as many minutes as they are old. No playing or talking just sitting. They also get this sort of time out if they're having a tantrum and can't pull themselves together. Generally a stint in time out calms them down.

  6. The Following User Says Thank You to FearlessLeader For This Useful Post:

    IncyWincy  (10-04-2015)


 

Similar Threads

  1. Toddler behavior/development book recommendations
    By HollyGolightly81 in forum Toddlers (1 year olds)
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: 14-02-2015, 22:41
  2. Military discipline and kids
    By TinBee in forum Parents in the Armed Forces
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: 15-10-2014, 11:48
  3. Spoon feeding shame...
    By NAT2561 in forum Weaning & Starting solids
    Replies: 25
    Last Post: 30-07-2014, 15:42

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
free weekly newsletters | sign up now!
who are these people who write great posts? meet our hubbub authors!
Learn how you can contribute to the hubbub!

reviews
learn how you can become a reviewer!

competitions

forum - chatting now
christmas gift guidesee all Red Stocking
WaterWipes
Give your babies bottom a gift this Xmas! They are the only wipe made using just water and a drop of grapefruit seed extract and may help avoid nappy rash. Check out the great reviews on bubhub and see our website for more info and availability.
sales & new stuffsee all
Bub Hub Sales Listing
HAVING A SALE? Let parents know about it with a Bub Hub Sales listing. Listings are featured on our well trafficked Sales Page + selected randomly to appear on EVERY page
featured supporter
Wendys Music School
Wendy’s Music School. Experience, Quality and great service! For qualifying students we will get you playing or singing your favourite music in 90 days GUARANTEED! Book a free assessment online now!
gotcha
X

Pregnant for the first-time?

Not sure where to start? We can help!

Our Insider Programs for pregnancy first-timers will lead you step-by-step through the 14 Pregnancy Must Dos!