So a girl I work with asked me to be her bridesmaid and I really don't feel comfortable with it.
We haven't socialised outside of work...unless u count the work Xmas party. I've met her fiancé twice when he's meet her after work. I haven't met any of her family or other friends.
She wrote me a note to ask me and I said yes but the closer it gets the less comfortable I get with it. She even asked my DD to be a flower girl without asking me. At first it was nice to be asked but now that its all happening its just making me feel crap. I don't know wat to do.
I've already said yes.
She has already said my whole family is coming too. My kids are young, DH works away and isn't going to want to go.
Its going to break her heart if I tell her I don't want do it. She doesn't have any other friends (as far as I know) and her other two bridesmaids are her 14 yo sister and her older sister who lives in London and might not be able to come.
What do I do...Help!!!