@Chiefsgirl Hello Luv... Looks like you've got it all pretty much sorted out by the looks of it That is a bit of a dilemma regarding which donor isn't it?? I understand about the weight concern. I have the same for my DD.
We have obesity on my (mum's) side of the family and my sisters and I have battled with our weight all of our lives Thankfully, DP's side is all good in that area and has height too as an added bonus!! I know all I can do for DD is make sure she eats healthily and exercises regularly, but I am scared for her. I don't want her to go through what I have if I can possibly help it. I still remember how hard it was at times at school and when I was a teenager
On the other hand, being predisposed to something doesn't mean that whatever it is will necessarily develop either, so there's that to consider too. I know your potential donor/ her family aren't obese, that's totally different from being built on the larger side (body frame wise) which might be all it is in her case???
Thanks for the restavit tip too Might have to give it a try and see how it goes I hate Pap tests too Luv...bleh!! I don't mind a bit of meditation myself. I find it helps calm me down sometimes. I also did the Hep B shots back when I was 17/18, bet I don't have any immunity to it now either
Good luck with choosing Luv. Sounds like you've still got a bit of time before you have to make a final decision
@leyshoja Lining is really good Luv!! I can understand where you're coming from and why you feel the way you do regarding choosing a donor. "Fixating" becomes your middle name I reckon when you're doing IVF, especially at transfer and through the 2WTorture!!!