so many great posts!
Skyler - I second the F.U. AF! Im so sorry thats happened, its fxxked. I love your idea about the crazy cat lady, i love kitty cats and our one Tuxedo cat is treated like a baby! Ive also been to Iceland and think its a brilliant idea! Its the most amazing place, with the most pristine air and water you could possibly imagine and the way they speak is very lovely, quite whimsical. I would really love to go back and see the Northern Lights. Drink yourself silly lovely.
Leisy - Was it you who said your AFs are really light? Mine too and I too thought I may have had ashermans and had a hysteroscopy early Jan but no. The Drs have since said its fine and that over time your period changes (another old age reference most likely!). I really only have 24 hours of a flow, the rest is just spotting mainly. Its good to hear others are getting pregnant with this tho, thanks girls.
Maxkat - don't you love those people!! I had a girl who was another surprise preg last year at work and she couldn't wait for it to be out so she could get back on the ciggies again! And she had to find a Dr who did c-sections because she was in no way going natural. Imagine my anger listening to this sh!t!! Life is not fair.
I like the pity party idea (Ive forgotten who said it), I always used to think about the actual stats of having an Ectopic, they were like 1% of all pregnancies or something, so guess who wins one of them!! What makes me so special that I make it into that 1%..?
Out of all the people that I know who have had mc's, they have all only ever had 1 and then they fall pregnant and have a happy ending. So why do I get hit over the head time and time again with some new disaster, blighted ovum, ectopic, missed miscarriage - think you've got to 12 weeks and then BAM no you haven't. Now its looking like nup, sorry you can't have anything!! And you're right, we don't wallow in it, we time and time again pick ourselves up from the hideousness and get back on the goddamn wagon to try all over again.
Ergggh, I need wine!!! My day has been crazy
We all deserve Olympic gold medals in persistance and torture survival