dp and I are considering having a second child together. We have a blended family, I have a dd from a previous relationship, he has a ds from a previous relationship and we have a child together,ds, so we have three children in total, dss only comes
To us on weekends and holidays. Those who have three children would you consider the jump from 1-2 harder or 2-3? I am worried I wouldn't be able to cope with three children. My second child had really bad reflux and I also have suffered pnd after both children, worse with my son due to my grandfather being sick and needing palliation at home while ds was 7 weeks old and in general the reflux was terrible, I was so so so tired from everything going on I lost the plot.I also like the idea of life in general being easier without anymore babies, the baby is 18 months now and getting to the easier stages. I am so conflicted because I can't shake this desire to have another child but I also am really tired all the time from the ones I have, they all fight like cat and dog and that makes me crazy haha. Dp wants another as well so it seems logical to have another but that makes four children. If we only had 2 children between us I wouldn't even hesitate but four seems so scary. Sorry about the rambling I'm just so confused.