how many of you have a best friend that has been so for many years??
my best friend ...or more like ex bf ..was mine for 25yrs...we talked about everything and i mean everything...there were no secrets between us..
but than 2 yrs ago she had a new group of friends (these women had their own group and included my bf into it) and slowly the contact between us became non existent..when we did meet up she hardly talked or shared at all..when i would message ;where previously we would have an ongoing conversation; now it would be 1 word replies...
than i found out from another mutual friend that she has girl nights at her place with her new group...never invited me ...where as when i would do anything with my friends (whom she didnt know) i would still invite her since shes my bf..
last weekend she bought a new house ...yesterday was her house warming party..not invited..and i only found out because the caterer she had for the party is a friend of ours and he by the way said are you going to her house warming..
i guess going from 25yrs of being best friend to a acquaintance status is hard...when you hadnt done anything to bring this on...i dont want to ask her why ...whats the point..but it does hurt..
i dont have alot of friends, actually not counting ex bf i have 3 which i would say are close ,rest are acquaintances...
sorry for the long story..i guess i had to get it out somewhere..
i know eventually i will get over it and move on ..just needs time..