my second child, 3.5 years has daily tantrums. I understand this is normal but I want to know at what point does it become a concern. she will scream demands to me, rather than just asking, she will scream and stamp her feet and hold her scream until shes red in the face, if she thinks someone is laughing at her (this has happened at child care where they said she looked lovely in her dress and smiled - she thought however they were laughing), she will get stuck on words in sentences and then scream because she cant complete her sentence. im finding it too much to handle and dread every outing we go on in fear she will cause a scene . my first child had tantrums yes, but not to this level. I don't want to jump to conclusions, but im concerned and want to know when does it become a concern. and what do I do from here? shes otherwise well advanced, talks clearly and accurately, development and skills are great, she has no other issues besides her "anger/tantrums". I cant avoid the gut feeling I have that its not quite right.
any help or advice, or natural home remedies or anything would be greatly appreciated.