Dunno if I'm going the right way about it with ds1.. he just can't seem to grasp it. it ends up being jibberish and looks nothing like his name. firstly I can't get him to hold pencil properly - he holds it awkwardly... I try to reposition his fingers but can't get it.. then just can't write properly. is there a secret to this?! I'm getting frustrated (I know I shouldn't) but got him to trace letters then do It himself. zero luck. any strategies?