I know dh and I definitely have our own strengths in the kitchen. I can't stand frying meat (or cooking meat full stop really, I struggle to know if it's under/overdone) so that's his job. as are curries. whereas I excel at risottos (he always ends up with claggy overdone rice), desserts and all baked items. we just play to our strengths and leave the other one alone or just offer to help peripherally (like washing up as the other is cooking). I can't stand actually cooking with him, our methods differ greatly and I take his "suggestions" as criticism lol.