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    Quote Originally Posted by heartstringz View Post
    I just rocked him to sleep & now im holding him for his entire nap (doesnt transfer) just like i used to. I couldn't take anymore SCREAMING. I feel like such a failure
    You are not a failure. You're a good mum whose doing everything she can for her bub. The fact that you care so much is evidence of what a great mum you are. Xo

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    I don't care that you don't do the dishes, just f***ing rinse them first, then stack them!!!

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    @heartstringz how old if your bub now?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mod-Nomsie View Post
    @heartstringz how old if your bub now?
    Hes 9 months old now. Its ok, im going to try responsive settling each sleep for an hour & if it doesn't work then ill rock or breastfeed him to sleep & hold him if I cant get him to transfer. Im sad that we've gone right back to square one, but i also have to accept that obviously this is the way it is cause nothing else seems to work

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    Quote Originally Posted by heartstringz View Post
    Hes 9 months old now. Its ok, im going to try responsive settling each sleep for an hour & if it doesn't work then ill rock or breastfeed him to sleep & hold him if I cant get him to transfer. Im sad that we've gone right back to square one, but i also have to accept that obviously this is the way it is cause nothing else seems to work
    Just wondering, can you do sleep school again? It seemed to work the first time for you, maybe now hes older it might stick with him?

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    I was hoping to avoid it, im going back to work in a couple of weeks & ds starts daycare. I cant take anymore time off work & i cant take ds out of daycare for a week as ill still have to pay for it

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    Quote Originally Posted by heartstringz View Post
    I was hoping to avoid it, im going back to work in a couple of weeks & ds starts daycare. I cant take anymore time off work & i cant take ds out of daycare for a week as ill still have to pay for it
    So stressful

    Has your DH found work yet? Maybe he could take him if he hasnt. I hope it improves a bit in time for you to go back to work HS

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    There is nothing much sadder than doing nothing but disappoint your kid by making him dress for the weather, making him leave his precious toys at home so they don't get lost, then hearing him howl as you leave him at CC...

    Feeling full on mummy guilts but my throat feels like a razor and I got hardly any sleep last night and he's just had 5 full days of straight 1 to 1 attention so I don't think I'm breaking him yet :-(

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    Quote Originally Posted by harvs View Post
    There is nothing much sadder than doing nothing but disappoint your kid by making him dress for the weather, making him leave his precious toys at home so they don't get lost, then hearing him howl as you leave him at CC...

    Feeling full on mummy guilts but my throat feels like a razor and I got hardly any sleep last night and he's just had 5 full days of straight 1 to 1 attention so I don't think I'm breaking him yet :-(
    It sucks hey?

    But you know that he'll be as happy as larry just 3 minutes after you leave, right?

    Sleep and recuperate! Or are you working today?

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    Quote Originally Posted by harvs View Post
    There is nothing much sadder than doing nothing but disappoint your kid by making him dress for the weather, making him leave his precious toys at home so they don't get lost, then hearing him howl as you leave him at CC...

    Feeling full on mummy guilts but my throat feels like a razor and I got hardly any sleep last night and he's just had 5 full days of straight 1 to 1 attention so I don't think I'm breaking him yet :-(
    Mummy guilt is the worst!

    But to be a great mumma you gotta take care of yourself too sometimes. I hope you get some rest today and start feeling better. I'm sure your DS was fine about 30secs after you left and is having a ball playing with all his friends

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