J - thank you for your info regarding cows milk protein and lactose. It all makes sense! I appreciate you taking the time to giving us the advice.
As for how long hubby and I had been trying........Well.....we hadn't planned on 'trying', but knew we would start very soon. Being that my cycles are all over the place, we just decided 'meh'. Seems bubba couldn't wait! It is all very exciting though and very much wanted - just a couple of months early! lol
J, I echo the other ladies - you are strong for all the stuff you are going through and your babies always look so happy and beautiful. You are doing an amazing job