Thanks for your kind words J, Bond and Lil Smurfy. I haven't decided whether to wait until after our holiday in May or try this month... I'm feeling ready but also a little anxious about it too. I don't think I'll do bbt or use opks straight away, just take a relaxed approach to begin with.
Rainbow I'm so devastated for you and Maja. It is just totally unfair. Sending you big hugs.