Dh just got made redundant!!
Im currently a SAHM & was due to go back to work 3 days per week from the start of May & ds was going to go to daycare starting April 13th.
We cant afford to pay the mortgage, daycare & living expenses on my wage alone.
Im not sure if there is still a full time job for me there as i told them i was only coming back part time
We have some savings but not sure how long they will last & how long it will take dh to get another job.
I don't know what to do about daycare. Do we cancel ds's spot & let dh look after him? - but then we have a problem when dh gets another job as we might not be able to get him a daycare place, at least not quickly (ie within a week or two - we need dh to be able to accept any jobs offered, not have to say 'sorry i cant start till we find daycare'). It took months & a lot of stress to get him this daycare place.
Or do we still send him to daycare & drain our savings to pay for it?
And what are the rules about returning early from leave? Can i do that??
God i cant believe this is happening right now. Im so freaked out that we will end up losing the house