Its been a really long time since i have posted but i really need some advice and I hope Im posting in the appropriate area
Basically I told dh that i wanted to seperate and that i was now longer in love with him. As expected he did not take this news so well.
The problem I am having is that he is refusing to leave the house. We rent and both our names are on the lease and i know he has just as much right to be here as i do. He was supposed to stay in the house till This tuesday when he was due to fly back to work for 3 weeks. and then when he returned for his 3 weeks off he was going to find a new house for him.
he has now done a complete 180. he is no longer going back to work for this rotation and has told me he now wishes to stay in this house for the remainder of the lease.
The bigget problem I have and this is where i need the advice is that I cannot leave the house. I am a stay at home mum and have absolutey no form of income. I do not receive any ftb. he is refusing to let me take the kids and i dont want to leave without them. He is refusing to support me financially in any way shape or form from next fortnight. I have started a claim for parenting payment but now that we are classed as separated under the same roof is it going to be harder and take longer to get my claim approved?
all i want to do is leave and get a house with the kids. can he stop me from leaving with them. I feel as though he is trying to make me leave.
sorry if this is rambling and doesnt make sense. I cant even think straight atm
Thanks in advance