Hi all, I just have a quick question... we are ttc atm (just started) and I have a high BMI (approx 35). I know there are all sorts of extra risks so I am working really hard to improve my diet and exercise more.
Have any of you had any experience with ob / mid / u/s operators being rude to you about your weight? I had a bad experience with an anaethetist being very rude to be about my weight and it makes me feel anxious that I'll be treated badly during pregnancy because of it.
As I said, hopefully some weight will come off with the improved diet - but I refuse to crash diet just before I try to concieve a child. I'm just almost hoping not to get a bfp this month because I'm so stressed about how I'll be treated being overweight 😯