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    Default Really struggling tonight..

    Missing XH like crazy tonight.

    I keep reminding myself of our last relationship counselling session over a year ago. The counselor asked me what I loved about him.. and I drew a blank. Such a long blank I couldnt answer & she changed the subject.

    Wish it didn't hurt at all. Wish DD didn't care at all. Some days are so hard..

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    185 sticky beaks an not a single supportive word. Thanks guys. I survived.

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    Sorry you're struggling. I think you must be so used to just having your ex there that you miss sharing your life because that's what you were used to, not actually miss him. Hope you're ok

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    Break ups are hard, even 7 years later and happily married to a wonderful man I still think about my x occasionally, mostly negatively but sometimes the small positives there were too. Remember there was a reason it fell apart and that you deserve something wonderful.

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    I'm sorry. I was one of those sticky beaks who read and ran.

    I have nothing much supportive to say, which is why I didn't reply.

    My situation is different, I don't miss ex dh. I have no desire to see or speak to him ever again.

    However, sometimes after the kids are in bed, the dishes are done, the house is tidy, it's only 7.30 and I'm sitting there on the couch alone, I get lonely. Really lonely. It makes me miserable.

    I am seeing someone, but we don't live together and he works away fifo, so those long lonely nights are tough.

    I hope you feel better today, I always do when the sun comes up, I pack a picnic, and head somewhere beautiful and soak up some fresh air and sunshine with the kids..

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    Hope you're feeling better this morning. It can feel really disheartening when you reach out in here and no one replies.
    My response in your situation would be to put the kids to bed, throw on a chick flick (complete with chocolate and wine) and cry it out.
    I think we all tend to miss the person we thought they were or who they promised to be at times. Hugs x

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    Sorry I have advice. I just wanted to send you some hugs.

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    I read and ran last night too. I was focussed on my own survival. I'm sorry you felt unsupported - I know that feeling.

    I hope you're feeling better today.

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    Hope you're doing better today. I only saw this now. Do something nice for yourself x


 

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