OK great, thanks again.
So based on that article I'll do a sleep cue - she likes being held against my chest and back patted - so Maybe I'll do this and sing a song and then pop her in cot. If she screams, pick up and try again.... If it still doesn't work? This is where I come unstuck! It's only been about 5 days, but I either feed here or just get her up and try again later (if it's during the day). Nights have (touch wood) been good when she does finally go to sleep, she's just been having the one wake up around 2-3am which is for a feed, which is great. Praying that continues haha!