My my story starts by my DH and I not conceiving in the 11 years we have been together and the 1 year we have actually been actively ttc. It has officially been almost 5 months of testing between my DH and I. All my tests came back great but unfortunately my husband had two semen analysis that came back with zero sperm. He was sent to a urologist who specializes in infertility...they completed a ultrasound which revealed a slight varicocele on his left testes, and smaller than normal sized testes. He had a TESE procedure completed along with a biopsy. Still no sperm was found and he was diagnosed with Sertoli Only Cell Syndrome. My DH felt it was necessary to get a second opinion which we did (requested to see his actual biopsy slides and redid his bloodwork and ultrasound.) My DH is on clomid to try everything he possibly can as well as fertilaid for men. We met my doctor the other day who was discussing donor sperm with iui. My DH is so upset and is worried that he can't love someone else's child, he is afraid he will be treating the baby differently. He does not want to be a active part in finding a donor bc he would rather me "trick" him into thinking the baby is his. I understand how he feels but I don't want to do anything behind his back if he is not 100% for it. Has anyone gone thru what we are going thru regarding his diagnosis, donor sperm and emotions??? I have so many mixed feelings on using donor sperm, any advice on how to sort thru my emotions and how to comfort my DH? Any success stories with Sertoli cell only???