@winsor wow I didn't realise you were in hospital! You poor thing, it def sounds like you've been through the ringer! Totally understandable that you are out on your feet, anyone wd be after what you have been through!
@Leisylou I can only imagine what you are going through. You are so right though when you say it's not about you and her, it's about supporting your dss. You are absolutely doing the right thing as difficult as it is xxx