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    Quote Originally Posted by Zombie_eyes View Post
    No im not reading too far into anything. I didnt say shiz.

    The OP took it one way; judging by other posts others did too.

    I have repeatedly said let it go.
    So it's okay for people to tear apart one person's post and, possibly, falsely accuse them of something but others can't comment. Yep, got it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveLivesHere View Post
    It ok to comment on weather you feel you should have another child.
    It's Not ok to tell someone else they shouldn't have had theirs.

    It is that simple.

    The poster implied that people that have a special needs child/children are crazy to have another. That is not ok
    She said she would have chosen not too as she could see how that would 'get' crazy. She never told anyone they shouldnt have had hers!

    Honestly i dont know that poster but everytime she posts its like a witchhunt! Someone is always picking her posts apart. Its like theres a cool club and uncool club on BH and heaven forbid someone with a different opinion opens their mouth. Seriously turns me off this forum. I know the poster may have made some posts which personally i dont agree with but i still believe the ongoing online targeted bullying is not on!

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    3 kids is awesome 😊 we were going to stop at 3 (now have 5), and they were 3 under 3 at one stage. I really didn't find it that much harder, but I think it's because I went into it not thinking about it. I just on and parented them and went on with life. Yes it was busy, but I found it way less overwhelming than having my first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by atomicmama View Post
    So it's okay for people to tear apart one person's post and, possibly, falsely accuse them of something but others can't comment. Yep, got it.
    *shrug*

    Ok. *sigh*

    Erryvody can turn this all into a huge thing. Go for it

    I honestly dont even care

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zombie_eyes View Post
    *shrug*

    Ok. *sigh*

    Erryvody can turn this all into a huge thing. Go for it

    I honestly dont even care
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    Id transfer and let fate decide

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    Ok look, I found the comment insensitive. It was poorly timed because this thread has been around for ages now and she posted that pretty much straight after Zombie. She makes a fair and valid point, the health and/or challenges of my current children definitely plays a part in any decision to have another, but you know, think about how you say stuff!

    Lay off Zombie, she didn't say anything about it, it was all me.

    Moving on...

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    I haven't even had my first yet and have the number 2 in my head as being ideal. I may end up in your position and question whether we could stretch for 3 because I'm already scared to actually have any babies because then it will be over. Sounds crazy right? I'm putting it off because I don't want to have the second baby and go right that's done now. Will that lead me to wanting another? Possibly! I would be weighing up finances, housing arrangements and the quality of life. Some people are great at balancing and juggling multiple kids but sometimes I doubt if I could. If I felt like DP and I could do it then we would go for number 3 and let fate decide if it was to be or not

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    DS1 has just turned 4 and DS2 turns 1 soon. I am finding it tough (DS1 in particular is draining my energy). I first thought I couldn't go through IVF again, but now realise I am not looking forward to going through the threenager stage a second time, nevermind a third. I'm sure you will make the best decision for your family.
    One thing I would be concerned about is if the transfer didn't work, would your heart already be yearning for a third and would you need to stim again?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ManchesterLass View Post
    One thing I would be concerned about is if the transfer didn't work, would your heart already be yearning for a third and would you need to stim again?
    This is exactly what I'm worried about with the "pop it in and see what happens" approach. I'd be mentally committed to another baby.


 

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