I get heart palpitations just thinking about a third. As @Zombie eyes said once the kid to parent ratio favours the former, things get crazy!
I worry about my mental health having a third, I think they'd have to put me away for a while if I were to have a third.
Oh guys, a third is great. 😀Haven't found going from 2 to 3 difficult at all. If I had special needs children then I wouldn't have had a third as can see how things would be crazy. If I hadn't have had a difficult worrying pregnacy and such an excruciating labour and birth and had remaining embryos to use we would go for number 4.
My 3rd DS has a few health issues and special needs. I wouldn't change it for the world now but I do struggle some days, this year has been full on appointments every week.
But if you had 3 healthy easy babies with only 1 embryo left I'd go for it, especially as money isn't an issue or space. Do it!
I personally find it quite full on with 3 and often a struggle but also get by.
Last edited by VicPark; 24-03-2015 at 05:50.
I would go for it for no3. I have 6 kids, 4 with special needs and I don't regret a single one of them. Yes it's way harder than just having 2 but the rewards OMG the reward are million times more.
Honestly no one will ever be able to tell you if it will be harder or easier. It all depends on your children there nature and personalities and how they mix and bond. This not only for the children you already have but for bub too.
I'm due with #3 now. I will have a 5 & 3 yo when it's born. Not an ideal age gap as I originally wanted 3 under 4yrs but this is what life dealt me.
I'm actually more excited for the pregnancy than both my previous ones. Go figure.
wifey of hubby who is always away. mother of two girls who are always amusing.
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