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    I agree, put it in there. If it happens on the day it's a bonus, if not, then you were probably expecting it anyway. So please for your sanity sake, put it in there, then at the time and what their moods are like, and depending when the weeks fall, then you have the option of getting them. If you don't put it in there, you will kick yourself later. His mood might change once the orders are in place too, he "might" just be bitter right now in the negotiation stage LOL (or not haha). Sometimes I forgo things where I would like to have to kids too. I also think of the kids too and whether it would disrupt them because I want them, but they are planned to be at their dads. My XH is fully entitled to have them for fathers day if it falls on my week, but he hasn't asked for them yet, and I am counting about 6 fathers days....So that it doesn't "disrupt" him. If it is mothers day you could arrange the pickup and dropoff so that he doesn't have an excuse and he pickup/dropoff if he wants them or fathers day. That could be a compromise ?

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    Who has the primary care of the children so you have 2 children do hand over so they do it at the same time. Police station would be more safer for you and your children doing a drop off. That's why I have hand overs at police station because my ex is known to the police especaly the elizerbeth police

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    Quote Originally Posted by Angelgirl07 View Post
    Who has the primary care of the children so you have 2 children do hand over so they do it at the same time. Police station would be more safer for you and your children doing a drop off. That's why I have hand overs at police station because my ex is known to the police especaly the elizerbeth police
    Thank you but I have between 6-8 changeovers per week currently so putting the kids into the car for that number of times would be ridiculous. I do have a house alarm with a panic button and a new dog that is very protective so I feel ok.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 4LeafClover View Post
    I agree, put it in there. If it happens on the day it's a bonus, if not, then you were probably expecting it anyway. So please for your sanity sake, put it in there, then at the time and what their moods are like, and depending when the weeks fall, then you have the option of getting them. If you don't put it in there, you will kick yourself later. His mood might change once the orders are in place too, he "might" just be bitter right now in the negotiation stage LOL (or not haha). Sometimes I forgo things where I would like to have to kids too. I also think of the kids too and whether it would disrupt them because I want them, but they are planned to be at their dads. My XH is fully entitled to have them for fathers day if it falls on my week, but he hasn't asked for them yet, and I am counting about 6 fathers days....So that it doesn't "disrupt" him. If it is mothers day you could arrange the pickup and dropoff so that he doesn't have an excuse and he pickup/dropoff if he wants them or fathers day. That could be a compromise ?
    Lol. He's not bitter just nasty, paranoid with narcissistic traits and it will continue- it's been 3 years so far and it hasn't changed thus far.


 

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