So, i'm trying to get draft parenting orders done before COB today as I have a lawyer who will look at them for free if I can.
I am stuck on my birthday and mother's/father's day. Ultimately FOB will get to decide his bday and Father's day 'wants'. I'm just thinking that if Mother's Day falls on a day that I don't have the kids then, too bad. I don't see them. FOB is an a**hat and he makes everything a drama/miserable so I just feel it's better I don't ask for special time. Some people's orders say that the kids get to be with the mum even f it' the father's time. I know the kids will be a bit upset but I can make sure we do a special dinner/breakfast the week before. It's probably only 4-5 Mothers days in the next 10 years anyway and then the kids decide for themselves. Thoughts?