Hi faithandhopellove - i agree with Lastchance - if you have embryos here i would try them before going for donor eggs. We are only doing donor eggs because we never once ended up with any extra embryos to freeze and on our last ivf round here all 3 embryos died on day 3.
The donor egg option in the US is so frickin expensive - we too have had to take out a massive loan. Good luck whichever you decide!!
Lastchance I have not heard of neupogen - are you with ivf australia here? maybe call the nurses?? not sure sorry!!