Sorry to hear that. I hate those insensitive comment. It is like we have a better choice. That's why we didn't say a word until it is done. My parents are actually the ones can't accept and said we haven't tried enough. It was frustrating to explain to them that it is a medical condition, no magical portion can fix that. I didn't even tell them about the donor until I was over 20w pregnant. Anyway, they are happy to have a grandkid now. That's the past.
It is what important for both of you. Especially in this difficult time.