Barca.... that's fabulous news. I've always been quite worried about how my DH feels, as he's never one to show much emotion. About a month ago (while 6 months pregnant), he mentioned about him being the surrogate father. I said, "what? you're not the surrogate father" and then I had to explain the whole process and all the terms to him. I think, because I go to 99% of appointments myself, and I do so much reading on the internet and here on Bubhub, that maybe I thought he knew all this when he didn't. Since then he's got his hand on my belly whenever he gets the chance, and absolutely loves it when he catches her kicking. It's kind of the only contact he really has with her, which at times I feel a bit sad about, but I keep going.