My partner and I are expecting a baby in August and its approaching that 20 week point where we can find out the sex of our baby. Problem is, I don't want to find out, but he does. What do we do? I feel really strongly about it, it will probably be my last baby and I've never had that surprise at birth. I ask him why he wants to find out and his reply is "because I want to". I'm so scared of him finding out at the scan and then slipping up somehow over the next 20 weeks. I don't want that surprise taken away from me. I tried to tell him today that if he thinks he might slip I'd prefer to just find out at the scan so I can kind of have that moment. But I know it won't be the same. He just retorts in s childish "I won't find out then". What do I do in this situation? Help!!