So today I've packed my things and moved into our granny flat. I haven't told anyone and DH didnt believe I would do it.
Things have spiralled out of control DH has become increasingly verbally and emotionally abusive and despite individual and couple therapy things are worse than ever. Last night and again this morning he has told me he " regrets marrying me" and " wishes he didn't love me". He frequently calls me names and swears and screams. I've become increasingly sad/angry and lately bitter so I'm also more reactive.
I don't currently work this was a choice while we did multiple rounds of IVF. I am now faced with job hunting after not working for a year. I have skills but absolutely no confidence. I'm very overwhelmed.
I don't know if I'm leaving for a week or month or ever. My hope is DH will realise how serious it is and work to improve his behaviour.
Is there anything I should be doing? I have my own bank account as well as some cash. But is there anything else.