I get the impression Debra has low self esteem or none at all. I think I read somewhere that Farrah helps her financially too.
When I see Amber rant about Gary I just think she needs to step back and remember who raised that little girl while she was in jail. She's not a bad kid so Gary did something right. Yea he can be a total d.ck at times but he's there for his kid 100%. I also don't like it that Matt seems to have an opinion on Gary when Matt himself has kids he's never taken care of!!