DD is 3.5yo:
Up at 6-6:30am, breakfast straight away then get ready for the day
Lunch is around 11:30/12
Dinner at 5:30/6pm
Bath or shower at 6 or straight after dinner
5 minutes of 'downstairs time' while she has a small cup of milk and I feed DS his bottle
6:30/7pm upstairs to brush teeth, read stories, then it's lights out.
She rarely has a day sleep these days so we have some down-time after lunch (watch a movie, quiet indoor play etc). 3 days a week she's in daycare and we have activities on the other days, but I try to keep afternoons fairly quiet.