I'm in the middle of a really awkward situation with a friend. I left my baby with her for 30 minutes while I ducked out. When I returned she told me that he had cried and wouldn't take his dummy so she had put honey on it. The way she spoke was as if she knew it was the wrong thing to do. My baby is 4mths old and is breastfed only, he has not started solids yet. My reaction was pretty calm but I said "Whaaat??? Don't give him honey" I think I looked as horrified as I felt. I quickly made polite conversation and left. It was extremely awkward. I was upset not just because it was honey but because he was given something without my permission but had decided that there was no point making a fuss. She then messaged and asked was he alright and I told her yes but explained that there is a risk of infant botulism when fed honey before 12 months so I was a little worried. She then sent me a crazy message saying not to leave him with her again cause she can't be trusted, which I ignored. Then she sent another message telling me she was having the honey sent off to a lab for testing and that she had called poisons hotline ect ect. I decided to ignore her as I was busy and didn't have time for the drama. The next day she sent me a few 1000 word txt messages rambling about the low risks of honey. I replied and told her that I was upset even though I know the risks are low but that i would have been upset if she had given him anything without asking. I told her that it was an awkward situation and that I think we should leave it be and move on for friendship sake. I then recieved more lengthy txt messages rambling about the low risks and how she didn't think she had taken any liberties and that she had to stop him crying because I hadnt left him any milk (I was gone 30 minutes and he wasn't due for a feed) she also mentioned that we both have issues with each other's parenting style (which I was unaware of) and that she didn't think there was any coming back from this. I was annoyed about the honey but I didn't make a scene or a big deal about it and her reaction has just blown me out of the water. She messaged me today to ask how he was. Not really sure where to go from here, any advice?