I'm torn and not sure- I have 2 options for Saturday night- going out for my belated birthday dinner. Dd turns 2 on Friday. I have never left her overnight.
A. My parents have offered to have her overnight. It means dd (and my parents) probably won't get any sleep and I'll fret a bit. I'm still breastfeeding before bed and once in the early morning but she can be put down without it if I'm not there. It also means I get a sleep in (first time in months) so I can stay out as late as I want.
B. My inlaws watch her for the evening. We live together so she should sleep ok as it's in her own cot. But it means an early wake up for me (dd is up by 6am).
So what would you do? Curious to know as I'm unsure.