@bbhope I can't believe they asked if it's planned. It's none of their business. That's rude! Some people don't realise but certain questions hurt and put us in a difficult position to lie or tell the truth. I was suspicious about a few pregnancies in the past but I never asked. I always just wait for the announcement.
I think I'll start telling people after week 14 which is when I see ob to get the all clear. I'm pretty sure by then I would have switched to maternity wear anyway and everyone would probably know anyway.