Recently my 9 month old has started crawling and pulling himself up on things and now whenever I put him to bed he stands up straight away in his cot or crawls everywhere. I understand this is a new skill he's learnt and it's great but he won't get to sleep now unless I feed him and a lot of the time its in my arms (and then when I go and put him down....BOOM! Straighy back up!) Ive tried controlled crying but it doesnt work for him plus I can't stand listening to him cry/scream. How do I get him to resettle without feeding and falling asleep in my arms? Or is falling asleep in my arms really such a bad thing?