Quote Originally Posted by FaithfulMum View Post

Bear in mind it needs to be dealt with identically on both wills as if you both die at same time and you both will your possessions to each other then the older person is presumed to have survived longer.

I thought it was other way round- in the case of "simultaneous death" (within 30 days of each other), the younger was assumed to have outlived the older. (I remember being miffed when the solicitor told us, because I'm older than DH!) Or does it vary from jurisdiction to jurisdiction?