DH & I need to get around to doing our wills! Something that we're not sure of though is what the go is with arranging custody of our DS if something were to happen to both us.
We would want my brother & his partner to have custody of DS, but DH has said that his parents would try to fight that (despite that being against our wishes, grrrrr!). They are well off and have more than enough money to fight for years.
Does anyone know if there is a way you can make custody arrangements in a will 'airtight'? Or what the likelihood of the grandparents gaining custody would be if it's against the wishes of the will?
We will go to a lawyer to get the wills drawn up, but I'm trying to go in with a bit of knowledge so we don't waste too much money on the advice side of things :/