Was just wondering if anyone else feels same. I had ivf to become pregnant with my 14 month old boy and luckily it worked first time. Now I am 16 weeks pregnant naturally and feel that I'm not appreciating or thinking about the pregnancy as much as I should. Although all pregnancies should be special I almost feel like the first one was so important due to what we went through (I also ended up in hospital for 3 weeks with a chest drain as I developed severe ohss) and that as this one came easily it doesn't feel as important. I also don't have time to dwell on every pregnancy symptom as I've got a toddler to run around after and although I'm not doing anything stupid feel that I'm not paying enough attention to the pregnancy. Is it normal to feel like this?