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    Quote Originally Posted by terryg View Post
    I'm going to pronounce phone that way now! Look I can see peoples POV in the situation im in no way a fan of the hyphen however I really like the sound of the X in Xander, sounds pretty strong like.
    Ok, based on that...

    Exxon?
    Eccentric?
    Excavator?
    Exterminate?

    Totally tongue in cheek :-p

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    I know a Zanda...

    I understand that you are trying to be different but just remember your child will be an adult and have a resume with that name later in life...

    Alexander is a strong name and certainly after Alexander the Great like you want....just use Xander as a nickname for the sake of your child please...

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    Quote Originally Posted by meredithgrey View Post
    As other posters have said, theres difference being unusual and "made up" names and deliberately pronouncing a name incorrectly.

    Personally I feel it is quite ignorant to be pronouncing a word (whether it's a name, place, object etc) incorrectly just because you've decided that's how you're going to pronounce it, especially after being corrected by other people.

    It's like deciding that you're going to pronounce the name Juanita "Ju-a-nita" and completely ignore its correct pronunciation. It's ignorant and uneducated.

    In the english language "Xa" is pronounced as a "Za", same for "Xe" being "Ze". You don't go around prononcing Xena as "Ex-ena", you sound ridiculous. Same goes for Xavier or Xanthe.

    I'm sorry if that offends you, but that is my personal view.
    I can't be bothered with an argument, I gave my opinion.

    You're not offending me at all, but holy heck it's a name.

    I don't see the need for insults. All names were made up, just because majority of names have been around for longer and we are used to them, doesn't make this any less of a name.

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    Quote Originally Posted by terryg View Post
    Hi,

    My wife and have found out we are having a boy,we both love the name Xander but would like to pronounce it with the X, would spelling it X-ander, look weird?

    Or do we spell it normal and correct people?

    Cheers
    I don't like the pronunciation of xander where it is pronounced ex ander but thats not to say it's a bad name. If it were my name or a written name I had to read out I think I would to see the written name as eXander, e'Xander, Exander.

    Just a side note though, my auto correct just changed it to expander.

    Go with what you want to go with. I know people who have really popular names with seemingly only one spelling who have to spell the name out or confirm the correct pronunciation.

    It couldn't be worse than a kid I came across whose name was spelled "phuc" but pronounced fook.

    Eta: just to clarify (cos I just realised how it could be taken) by worse I mean for people who have never seen or heard the name before) this name would have be one of the names most dreaded to discover the correct pronunciation by having to read it out loud in front of a group of people.
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    Phuc is a Vietnamese name that means blessing and it is actually pronounced Fook. So sounds funny to us, but it's just a difference in language. DH and I had this trouble when coming up with names because some of the names I liked had very different meanings in his home country and they had to be vetoed.
    Ironically when I googled Phuc it said 'people who liked the name Phuc also liked Xander.'
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    Default Xander with the X pronounced - spelling

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    Last edited by SAgirl; 12-01-2015 at 16:33.

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    I'm agreeing with what others have said. X-ander is silly, looks wrong and even confusing. Exander or Alexander.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Party of Three View Post
    Phuc is a Vietnamese name that means blessing and it is actually pronounced Fook. So sounds funny to us, but it's just a difference in language. DH and I had this trouble when coming up with names because some of the names I liked had very different meanings in his home country and they had to be vetoed.
    Ironically when I googled Phuc it said 'people who liked the name Phuc also liked Xander.'
    Yeah the first time I saw it written I struggled pronouncing it. The boy was from Vietnam I think.

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    If you're going to go with Xander, put an E in front of it. I can't stand hyphenated names where a hyphen does not belong, but that's just me.
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    Hmm, I've always pronounced Xavier with the ex sound, but Xander with the z. Maybe it's because my first exposure to the name came from X-men?

    Anyway, I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting Xander with a z sound - I rather like it, actually, because I love the name Alexander and it's obviously a derivative - but I don't think it should be spelt as is because it will cause a whole heap of confusion. (Case in point: my pronunciation of Xavier.)

    And adding the hyphen just makes it tacky - and people might go the Zdashander route and that's a super bizarre name. Exander is probably a better bet just to curb confusion in future.

    Your child, your decision, but don't forget that he's the one who has to live with the consequences of having to spell his name all the time and correcting people, first at school and then work and then everywhere that requires any sort of name register.
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