@Kookii - I hear you. I actually dread seeing all those feeds pop up on Facebook about friends and their pregnancies and kids. It's such an emotional hit to see how easy it seemed for others to have kids while we struggle like crazy.
@tjuls - thanks! for me, it's just making sure we give this our best shot and see how things go from here. At least we have some closure at the minimum if things don't work out so I am trying to stay positive and not stress myself out over results.
@Billie2 - thanks for the tip, I don't drive but that's still good to know!