Basically, we (DH and I) would like to change parts of the Parenting Agreement made between DH and his ex. This is due, largely, to 2 things:
1. there is a lot of irrelevant items now that the kids are older- agreement was made when they were aged 4 months and 1 years, and
2. there is no mention of partners and/or their role.
DH has tried to attend mediation with his ex in the past, but she refuses. It took the 'threat' of court orders to get her to do a parenting agreement (she just wanted to type up her own and have him agree) in the first place, but it was never notarised- she refused.
How do we go about this? She will absolutely refuse to attend mediation, and will refuse to legalise anything. What can we do?