@EnPointe how you doing Hun xxxx
Still in shock @Felicia I am feeling world's of guilt too. A friend of mine has just made the very difficult decision to stop trying after many many failures (17failed ivf's that I know of, donor eggs, and who knows what else)
The nausea is getting worse (that's what triggered me to test in the first place) and it's making me hate this experience even more.
However out of the blue Mr.4 told me I have a baby girl in my tummy. He did follow with "just kidding", but it did give DH and I a laugh.
Dr. took my blood today and will contact me in the morning with a rough idea on dates so I can book a dating scan.
@EnPointe Big big hugs! Im not sure what to say, but just know we are here to support you.
Does your DS4 know you are pregnant? If not that is freaky!! How amazing would it be if it was a girl!??! How do kids sense these things?
i think the guilt needs to be to the side at the moment in all honesty you have nothing to be guilty about- this is sometimes out if our hands
my DS 8 has taught me this , when these little people want to come they come ... Not before , not after , not sooner or later .
Im sorry for your friends jounrey , sometimes we have have big lessons to learn along this road - planned ,not planned . I have experienced both !
bless ds4 I'm sure they know before us .
Be gebtle with yourself and DH , looked after mummy right now she needs the extra love and support
hoping ms sways soon and love to now an update when you can .
How far along do you think you are ?
No @curlybird we haven't told him yet after he let slip to my FIL last time. So yeah pretty freaky. A girl would be perfect, but I don't want to get my hopes up and I'm pretty sure it's a boy anyway.
@Felicia I think I am around 6 weeks. My doctor is going to call this morning with the results from my BT .
Thank you for your support ladies. Much love ❤
@Lizzy083 sorry for delayed reply - gosh I hope all those symptoms for you are promising ! You've got a lot of willpower to wait to test by the sounds of it
best of luck for Sunday! Fx fx fx let us know how you go
Sirena89 and what a great memory you have. Yes DH was made redundant like the week or two after I had baby #2. He had been doing contract work for the last 7 months and has just been offered a permanent position at one of the companies he was contracting for. He started last week. It's a massive change he normally works in IT and this is a photography position. But he is very good and I think this is a great company. I am actually very proud of him as he was asked to go permanent over all their other contractors and he had been working with them the shortest.
Not much better. I've accepted it but still not happy about it. I have an ultrasound booked on Tuesday 17th. I'm hoping that will get me feeling more positive.
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