Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3years and 7 months , I am expecting baby number #1 , and in my heart I believe that when baby Is born he should have mly surname because we aren't married
his mother however does not approve of us getting married , and does not like me , due to the fact that we first started dating when his parents went through a divorce . She feels as If I took him Away from her (he's the only son she , has ) .
I apologised , and tried to create peace with her but she told him that she will NEVER FORGIVE me , due to the fact of my presence during their divorce , she told him I hold a fraction of fault for the divorce , which I'm puzzled ??? Because I thought a marriage is between two people ? How can your sons girlfriend come in the way of your marriage ?
Since my boyfriend told her that the last name of our baby is important to him and the right thing in both of our cultures is to get married , she refused and told him that he should change the name anyway
My heart hurts knowing that she does not care at all about our baby and she told him that maybe he's not the father .
But I'm scared , because my baby boy will be born soon , and I strongly feel that because I'm not married the baby should have my last name & not his . Only or if we get married will I then change his last name
Am I being biased ? It has been stressing me out for the last 5 months .. Anyone with similar stories ?