This is more of a vent… but I welcome advice and comments!
To keep it simple…
DH is on a downward spiral into depression (pressures from work and a busy home life) – yes we are looking into ways to build him back up.
DD is nearly 3 and whinges/whines aaaaallllllll day. If she isn’t whinging she is crying or having some kind of meltdown. We try our hardest not to feed into it, but it wears you down as the day goes on!
I am finding it increasingly difficult to be supportive of DH, whilst trying to manage the LO’s and give him breaks when he needs them. I can’t tell him how I am really feeling because I don’t want him to feel guilty about not being able to ‘pull his weight’. He works hard and we are ok financially. The house we live in is high maintenance due to its age and condition, and I find it overwhelming all the things that always need to done. Unfortunately we can’t really afford to move. I think me going back to work may help both DH and me but with DS being a newbie, I’m not quite ready to do that yet.
aahhhh...... I think I feel a little better now… thanks for reading!