This probably is nothing and probably is just me thinking too much, but like to know your thoughts.
SIL has 5 lovely kids and the youngest boy is 11 years old.
SIL sometimes baby sits for us. DS 3.5 years, DD 2 years.
Today we went to their house for lunch and I have noticed the whole time we were there the boy wanted DD to sit on him. Then he would hug her and kiss her non stop. He wasn't playing with her, but just wants her to sit on him and give him hugs. When she tries to get off or when she's not on him he would try to pull her back and would ask her to go to him for hugs the WHOLE time!
I felt extremely uncomfortable about it and have asked DD to come to me whenever I can and told him to not get too close because she's not feeling well.
I don't know if I am overreacting or being silly, and I don't want to offend anyone.
He's always been a little odd, there's something about him I just can't put to words. I have always felt a bit uncomfortable when he's around DS and DD. He was still toilet training at 9 years old!
But I have always brushed off what ever feelings I had for him because I think it's all just me being silly. He's only a child!
But today made me extremely uncomfortable and I don't want my kids going there ever again.
Am I overreacting?