Hi everyone, I am 8 weeks pregnant after having three IUIs and one IVF cycle. I had a scan at 6 weeks and 6 days which showed a heart beat. I always planned to wait until after 12 weeks to tell people but since it's christmas next week I thought it was an ideal time to tell the family. I am scared it's too early...thoughts? I have been keeping this a secret for a year and have gone through ivf without telling them. I don't know if I would tell them if we miscarried or not. Hard to know how I would feel.
Also, I'm a bit confused about who I talk to from here. The fertility clinic is done with me so I don't think I can ask them questions now. I can't get into my GP for a couple of weeks. I have an appointment with a birth centre at a hospital in mid feb. I am wondering when the next scan would be? I wish I could have one right now so I could check again before Christmas!! I am not sure if I am meant to have any more scans before feb? I think there was mention of 10 weeks or something?