Hopefully I can remember all the questions. He's 19. He has money because he worked all summer and saved up $. He has no expenses DH even puts gas in his car.
We had a big blow out tonight.. all 3. SS was screaming in my face " YOU AREN'T MY ****ING MOTHER, WHAT I DO ISN'T YOUR BUSINESS ! " Dh did nothing but said both stop. I can't even remember everything that was said. I did say I'll call the cops on you and he said they won't arrest me for pot !!!
We have been talking about moving to out of state and I'm now to the point I'm moving without them and told them that. So S can continue to do what he wants. Oh someone asked why he's doing it, he didn't say this but DH did to help deal with his mothers illness that he could very well have. I told DH years ago to get counseling. We were going to a support group and then we had to stop because SS was asking where we were going and DH didn't want him to know. I did say, so if I come hom from work and have enough drinks to get a buzz and do this 2-5 nights a week, you would be ok? DH said nothing. Besides the pot SS has fake ID and buy alcohol and drinks at home. He was drinking straight vodka and I said " you aren't concerned? " Again one of the times he had no response. It's unfortunate but my son said come live with me I don't want you in that kind of environment.